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(독서) Daily Stoic-12월10일DON'T SELL YOURSELF TOO CHEAPLY
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(독서) Daily Stoic-12월10일DON'T SELL YOURSELF TOO CHEAPLY

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2024.12.10조회수 4회
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구독자 108명구독중 76명
안녕하세요. 삶에서 '중용' 을 지키기 위해 노력하려고 블로그를 'The Golden mean' 으로 이름 지었습니다. 어제보다 나은 내가 되기 위해 꾸준히 나아가는 삶, 미래보다는 하루 하루의 현재에 집중하는 삶, 항상 극단에 치우치지 않고 주위를 둘러볼 여유도 있는 삶을 지향합니다. 투자 공부는 혼자서 해오다가 이렇게 좋은 커뮤니티를 만나서 더 즐겁고 효율적으로 할 수 있음에 감사합니다. 같이 성장해 나가길 기원합니다.

"I say, let no one rob me of a single day who isn't going to make a full return on the loss."-SENECA, ON TRANQUILITY OF MIND, 1.11b

("나는 누구든 나에게 하루를 앗아가려 한다면, 그 손실에 대해 온전히 보상하지 않는다면 허락하지 않을 것이다."-세네카, 마음의 평온에 대하여, 1.11b)

 

People spend a lot more money when they use credit cards than when they have to pull out actual cash. If you ever wondered why credit card companies and banks push cards so aggressively, this is why. The more credit cards you have, the more you'll spend.

 

Do we treat the days of our lives like we treat our money? Because we don't exactly know how many days we'll be alive, and because we try our hardest not to think about the fact that someday we'll die, we're pretty liberal with how freely we spend our time. We let people and obligations impose on that time, only rarely asking: What am I getting in return ...

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